Jesus: You find your soulmate when your soul desires it is time for you to come back together, that being any time in flesh or in spirit. However in humanity’s case, the soul will only desire it when both individuals have chosen to live true, have progressed in truth to a degree whereby it requires the soulmate union to take place so as to further ones soul growth, to further ones healing of ones evilness and negative state. We (all truth loving souls) can grow without being with our soulmate in an intimate way to a certain level or degree of truth, or even untruth, however once that’s been reached, then further truth progress can only come about through the ongoing interaction of the soul-pair. There is no specific time when this might occur, it happening on an individual and soul-pair basis entirely in keeping with the plan of their soul, that plan put in place by God upon the creation of their soul.
Two people, each being of the same soul, may come together in flesh in answer to their souls need to progress, or such a reunion might occur in spirit. Each of the pair may be on Earth together during the same or similar time periods or each might come at very different time periods. And you may be of the same race and culture, with similar beliefs and ways of expressing yourself, or you may be of a different race and greed. However the one thing all soul-pairs share in common is that when it is time for you to consciously together again, all you are and all you’ve been through will be perfect for all you need together so as to keep advancing the truth growth and evolution of your soul.
It’s all about TRUTH. If you are not striving and desiring to live true to yourself, and so the truth of your soul, then you will not meet up with your soulmate. Whilst you are anti truth, which means, anti self, you can’t be with your soulmate because being with your soulmate is always and can only be an expression of truth and the love resulting from such truth.
Many people along with the mind spirits believe they are growing in truth, however it’s all in their minds. Many people and mind spirits believe the religious and spiritual practices they are engaged in and dedicating themselves to are helping them progress in truth, are evolving their soul to higher levels of truth, but they are not, they are only further advancing their minds. True truth growth will only come about when you are intent on healing yourself through uncovering the truth of your self- and truth-denying state, when you start to give up living with your mind in control submitting fully to your feelings; when you submit to your feelings looking to them to help you uncover the truth of yourself, this being something that currently only happens to a very minor degree on Earth, and not at all in the mind spirit worlds.
And whilst you persist in living untrue to yourself, then any and all relationships you have in this negative truth-denying state of mind and will, will only further enhance this condition. So although a great love may be felt and experienced by all involved, still it’s all only serving to lead you further astray, further from yourself and further into the untruth.
So what you’re saying Mary is that until we are striving to live true, we can’t be with our soulmate despite what we might feel and think.
Yes. And when you are with our soulmate, at some point as a part of the truth you are revealing to yourselves, you will know you are soulmates.
What about Helen Padgett in the Padgett Messages going around informing spirits of their soulmate and introducing them, why does that happen, why don’t those spirits come to it naturally as part of their truth?
As with everything James, it’s all part of what their soul requires and it can have a good or negative effect on both parties involved. In the Padgett Messages all the spirits Helen was involved with as you have read were either in the Divine Love (and what I’d call ‘feeling’ as opposed to ‘mind’, mansion worlds), or the Celestial spheres. And it was all part of the required experiences by all souls concerned for Helen and other spirits like her that were able to unite soulmates. I will add that there are also many spirits in the mind mansion worlds that also feel they have such a ‘gift’, to tell which spirits are soulmates and to bring them together if so desired, however these spirits being only intent in furthering their minds control over their soul all at the expense of their feelings, are untrue and don’t have any such gift. However many spirits want to believe them, and so come together for often very long periods of time all based on someone affirming their fantasy.
In the Divine Love and healing mansion worlds, healing your negative state through your ongoing feeling acceptance, hence the focus on feelings and why I refer them as the ‘feeling’ worlds, certain spirits like Helen do have the ability to introduce soulmate pairs, however as I said, meeting your soulmate might not necessarily mean you are instantly deliriously happy with each other. Nor might you even have any feeling for each other. You might even be repulsed by each other, yet the soul-bond will be true and strong, and you will set about working on yourselves to heal your negative states, and gradually or when you have healed, you’ll have healed all that did separate you, wanting to remain together forevermore and being fully in love with each other.
So soulmates can be repulsed by each other?
Jesus: I will continue James. Yes. You have to understand that whilst you’re living in your untrue state you will find other people of like untrue state that you’re attracted to. The reasons for this being so you can help each other further your negative state or begin to help each other out of it, or for one of the two involved to become more aware of their truth- and self-denial. And so it’s conceivable, but of course does not always happen, that when you come together with your soulmate, each half being untrue, you might not feel attracted to each other, yet will know, or it will just happen, that you are to be together because of your shared intention of healing your negative states.
Some people I’ve read about have not been attracted to the other person and yet feel they are to be together, with a love and friendship forming to the degree of never wanting to be apart. Are these people doing their healing as you say?
No, as currently no one on Earth (other and you and Marion) are doing or has done their healing. That repulsion then attraction is still only happening within their untrue states, it’s not the same thing as what I’m talking about.
So in our untrue states, no matter whom we’re with and what we feel about them, at some point, be it on Earth or in spirit, when we become sincerely intent in growing in truth, those untrue relationships will end.
Yes. It can’t be any other way, for if you want to be true, then all that’s untrue will leave you. Your whole relationship with yourself will change - you will change; and if your partner doesn’t change as well, if they do not want to grow in truth or if they do but change differently to yourself, then your attraction will cease to be.
So what about people reading this who might be in relationships and are faced with that relationship possibly ending if they start to do their healing.
It’s as it will be. If such a person is intent of putting themselves first and living true to their soul, and if their relationship is based on untruth, then it will end. However, the ending of it they will know in their hearts is inevitable, because you all know you are untrue and the truth of how you really are, only mostly you don’t allow yourself to have such feelings, you keep all such things hidden. But as you grow in truth, such things will come to the fore, and as you grow and change in truth so you’ll feel you longer want to be in the relationship you are in, or no longer under the same conditions. And as I said, if your partner doesn’t want to progress, then your feelings for being with them will decrease and eventually fade away completely.
And if one does want to be true, putting that as their goal in life and putting it above all else, then in time they will meet their soulmate and know the person, or if in they are in spirit, the spirit they are with, is the right one for them.
Jesus it’s a huge thing to consider that all our relationships are untrue, and all the people having children are having them in untrue relationships, and all parents - my parents, were untrue. And I’m untrue and evil as a result... it’s too horrible to contemplate.
Which is why no one has wanted to look at such truth until now. No one in humanity has wanted to embrace the truth of this, and so it’s remained hidden, yet it’s been there all along. And you struggle on in your relationships trying to find your perfect match, and many people believe having children will help and be part of that perfect union, and it’s all within the untruth. And it explains why so many people are unhappy, and why you have to force yourselves to be loving and to feel love, and why you live so much in your minds with them full of fantasy, and why no one is true.
So no one is true - no one?
That’s right. Only Mary and I have been true since our time on Earth. Humanity has been in its condition of rebellion and default for a very long time. A very long time before we came. And it’s all been building to this point its now arriving at. Your mechanised impersonal world is beginning to show the signs of pain from the burden of living untrue to itself. Many people are in great pain, some aware of it, others not so. It’s time something happens, something to help humanity to come back from the brink, because to continue on as you are doing, as you have done over all these years will only mean certain disaster. You simply can’t go on denying yourself as much as you do, for just like a person who is denying themselves, when it all gets too much, then their system starts to breakdown, they become ill, and humanity is very ill indeed. And all you do, such as all your doctors do, is try and correct the part that is obviously wrong, but nothing you do deals with the inherent causes making you sick in the first place. And that’s what Mary and I want to help you to see, something of what is causing all your problems and how you might go about truly helping yourselves.
So no one has lived a true relationship over all these years. And even though we’ve spoken about it many times before, and I can see it in my own life, it still staggers me to think about it.
It’s true James, no one has, and so all relationships are flawed, all children produced by such flawed relationships become themselves flawed, it all getting passed on one generation to the next. And all the so-called love in such relationships is being experienced within an anti love and anti truth state of mind and way of life, so there’s a huge pressure being brought to bear on you all, all the time. And it doesn’t matter what you think or what you believe, or whether you agree with what Mary and I are saying, because if you want to sincerely relieve yourself of your soul and spiritual pain, you will have to seriously consider making growing in truth your priority in life.